“I cheat because it gives me a high unlike any other. The sex with someone else makes every nerve in my body feel like it’s on fire. It has nothing to do with the love for my wife. Our home, children--our family life mean the world to me. But cheating is about random collisions with people where you feel an instant attraction. The attraction has its own heartbeat. You can’t control it.“  -Joseph, Age 40

According to Psychology Today, a strong sexual desire alone doesn't tell much about whether who is more likely to cheat—the evidence points to individuals with strong sexual desires and low self control. Those with strong sexual desires and high self control are not likely to cheat. They think through the consequences and the risk/reward and keep a level head.