14 Things that People with Crohn's, Colitis, and IBD Hate Hearing
Do you really have to go again?
With going into too much detail as to why, it would be safe for you to assume that if someone tells you that they gotta go, then they gotta go and probably quick. It can be embarrassing for them if you doubt them when they tell you they can’t hold it, or worse if they try to hold it and end up not being able to. One of the biggest fears of anyone with serious IBD is that they may get stuck in a situation where they cannot get to a bathroom in time, such as in traffic or during a public event.