Free the Mind: Overcoming Setbacks With Fibromyalgia

Many people may encounter periods of sadness during their lifetimes. Some people become more conscious of their less-than-pleasant reality, yet remain unconscious of the psychological stress they are facing. The result is a domino effect of negativity. They experience a denial of problems that can only wear them out. Each day becomes passive as the person feels more and more unproductive and unsuccessful.

Setbacks Are Inevitable

Like stepping stones on a naturally murky road, setbacks can prevent someone from going forward for fear of stumbling or not being able to reach the other side. Many say running away, overthinking, and starting anew all at once will not help, which is true. How can a person move forward if his or her grip on that obstacle is still as tight as a knot? How is it possible to succeed again without learning what to do the next time a setback arises? After all, life is a cycle, and mishaps are a part of that cycle, a process that reduces the negative impact as people grow stronger. 

Many times, people experience sadness at certain points in their lives, causing some of them to become more conscious of their painful circumstances, but remain unaware of the psychological stress they are going through. It is impossible to succeed in life again without learning what to do the next time a setback appears. It is the circle of life; what goes around, comes around. In one study, it was observed that those who face stress related to their careers found themselves feeling very depressed due to constant overthinking at work. Waiting patiently for a promotion will actually drain an individual and thus needs a good deal of persistence. Minds that are constantly on the go and learning are known to have a stronger memory and be healthier overall than idle ones. So, making changes in one’s lifestyle can be beneficial both physically and mentally.

It is important to ignore what people think about you; rather, you have to focus on yourself. Every time you feel low, try to remind yourself that you made achievements before and you have the ability to do so again. Decision-making is  crucial, so, when you are making a decision, you should consider your well-being first. It will help you to get over any kind of regrets in your life. All hurdles will slowly become easier to handle as you choose what you love to do rather than give in to outside pressure. One way to encourage yourself is to display all the trophies, awards, or any other examples of success you have received.

Do not keep things bottled up inside yourself. Talk it out, either to someone you trust or even just to yourself in the mirror. When you overthink things, it allows your troubles and depression to build up. At such times, stop whatever you’re doing, breathe deeply, and then think clearly. Start your day with positive vibes and do things that really motivate you. Face your problems head on instead of trying to push them away. Challenges are opportunities to succeed and grow, not something to be scared of. What we eat affects our mood as well, so go in for healthy, fresh fruits and vegetables. Stay away from or at least limit your intake of processed foods and junk items. Try a cleansing diet at least once a week to help you feel a bit lighter and set your mind at peace. From time to time, change your nutrition plan to help ease the mental clutter in your brain.

When things do not seem right, do what you love or try new hobbies. Aggressiveness is a negative trait that must be avoided when facing any setbacks. Instead of violence, distract yourself; play your favorite sport, sing your heart out, read a book, or dance. Nowadays, many people express their views and emotions on social media. You can make use of these outlets, but be sure it is for a good reason, such as sharing posts you can relate to and spreading positivity.