1. Showing, not telling
The great search for love can be a long and arduous journey.
Some people are lucky and find their significant other pretty quickly, but for most others, it isn’t so easy; they have to endure the perils of dating, a process that can be both fun and nerve-wracking. On the one hand, you get to meet new people and engage in (hopefully) enjoyable social activities, but on the other hand, you may feel pressure to impress the person you’re seeing, or you could suffer through a plethora of bad dates trying to find a long-term partner. Despite our individual differences, we are all simply looking for love, and in fact, the characteristics we desire most are relatively similar as well. Here are the 10 traits people look for when dating.
The first of these sought-after mannerisms is showing rather than telling. In this, the old adage is true: “Actions speak louder than words.” While talking is important to get to know someone, oftentimes, how we behave in certain situations can reveal more than an hour-long conversation. This also applies to online dating; your biographical summary is what draws people in (or has them swiping left, so to speak), but long-winded, prosaic paragraphs are boring and unimpressive.
If you really want to attract someone, write about a specific event in your life that was important to you, or even something silly that happened to you. The point is to show what makes you different with tangible evidence, rather than unsubstantiated words.