10. Making something fun out of the mundane
Everyday life can be pretty rote, even boring on occasion. That’s part of the reason why people date: to find someone who will spice up a dull routine.
Rounding out the list of top 10 desirable dating traits is the ability to make the mundane fun, a skill few have, but that creates a high demand when found. Spontaneity ties in well with this characteristic, as a disregard for schedules and proper procedure (within reason) can offer some much-needed excitement (although it could become annoying on a regular basis, so moderation is key).
It truly is all about the little things in life, but sometimes we need help to fully appreciate them. So, when we find someone who can provide a fresh, lively perspective on something as simple as taking a shower or cooking a meal, we stick closely to them, wanting to hold on to the positive emotions they invoke.