Try not to care about having an orgasm. Just focus on having fun and enjoying yourself
Sex is supposed to be enjoyable and relaxing, not something to be dreaded or feared. If intercourse causes a woman pain, then it definitely warrants a trip to the gynecologist, but otherwise, whether or not an orgasm is achieved, being intimate can still be pleasurable and satisfying. The best approach to sex is simply to have fun. As 34-year-old Amelia stated in regards to her lack of orgasm after every sexual encounter, “Don’t take it personally, I’m still having a great time!” This “condition” doesn’t have to limit a person’s sexual experiences; a woman can still try different positions and toys and gain a great deal of satisfaction from them. They just may not end with the Big O. It’s important to depart from the notion that good sex and orgasming are interconnected to the point of being synonymous. Intimacy can be enjoyed all on its own, you just have to let go of any preconceived ideas and be active in the moment.