Be open with your partner
If there are emotional issues in your marriage or your life, then get help for them. Depression, poor self-image, anxiety, and thoughts about work or money can easily put stress on your relationship. Try to go to couple's therapy or even individual counseling to talk about your issues. Sometimes, these resources are the best way to work out solutions. Be as open as you can with your partner, and even with your doctor. Being honest with your doctor can help you find some treatments for your sexual problems.