Thank you for your question. It sounds like there are relationship and communication issues between you and your wife that are contributing to her wanting a divorce. Since you don't want to give up on the marriage, I would recommend that you seek couples counseling to work through any problems and create some solutions together in a safe environment.
I hope this has been helpful!
Jenna Torres, PsyD
Patricia Harris | MA, LPC
Sara Cole, MS, LPC, CAC III, NCC