Psychologist Questions Transgender Health

Small penis and crossdressing?

My step-mother used to say my small penis was the reason I liked to wear my step-sister's clothes. Also a sign I should have been a girl. Was she right? I still dress today.

Male | 45 years old

7 Answers

No. There is no such evidence.
A small penis has nothing to do with cross dressing. Most male cross dressers are heterosexual. The psychological reason for cross dressing is still unknown. Cross dressers and transgender are two very different things.
No! The size of your penis does not have anything to do with cross dressing. I would say I am concerned about why your stepmother knows anything about the size of your penis!
It’s important that regular counseling explorer issues like this. I don’t know from so little information, but it sounds like maybe this was a hurtful comment that you experienced. I know of no physical correlation. I hope you dress however you like. Dress, gender, and sexuality are spectrums. Meaning there are all variations of preference.
Dr. G
Some heterosexual men cross dress. One told me it was because he didn't get enough nurturing from his mom and dressing like a woman was a way to fill up. Who told you that you had a small penis as a child? Shame on them. Often the size of a penis changes with age, and often women don't want a large penis, because it's too painful. So, shame on the grownups of your childhood who advised you wrongly. As you face your feelings of emptiness, perhaps from lack of nurturing, you may gradually not need to cross dress. However, it probably doesn't hurt anyone if you do.
That is a possibility, but a small penis really does not have much to do with cross dressing and even wanting to be a woman. We all have urges and wither we decide to fight them or indulge in them. It’s not the end of the world if you wish to dress and even be a girl at times. It’s okay and God doesn’t dislike you in any manner. Our true selves are light and energy that is all love. We are not make or females until we are born in life forms. Sex is only a material physical thing and it’s okay to venture into that realm if you have many desires. Just be clean and careful.
Consider reviewing these links:

https://www.muscleandfitness.com/women/sex-tips/7-reasons-why-its-ok-if-you-have-small-penis
http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-1646-7-things-you-learn-as-straight-guy-whos-crossdresser.html

After reviewing them, you should be able to answer the question asked.